The
hustle and bustle of daily life can sweep us away from what really means the
most to us. It’s up to each of us to figure out how to live a personally fulfilling
life. Although much of your life is shared with others, you can still
carve out your own space for a rich, meaningful life.
Take action now to live a life that you
love:
1.
Clarify what
matters to you.
How you spend your time largely determines what’s important to you. If you say your
family is at the top of your list, do you spend the bulk of your spare time
with them? When you know for sure who and what matters most to you, then that’s where
you want to focus your time and energy.
2.
Stay in the
moment.
If you’re planting flowers, think about packing the earth well and digging the
hole deeply enough. Remind yourself to water them immediately afterward.
Regardless of what you’re involved in, keep your mind focused.
·
Even
when you’re washing the pots and pans, you can concentrate on having nice, hot
water and shining the outside of the pans the way you like them.
3.
Say what you
mean and mean what you say. Do your words carry importance and honesty, along
with kindness and care? Avoid mincing words. Get to the point, but remember to
take the other person’s feelings into consideration. When your
discussions contain subjects of interest and heartfelt feelings, it’s
meaningful for you and the listener.
4.
Find your
passion.
What gets you interested, excited, or fascinated? Has there ever been a topic
that you think about all day long to the point where you can hardly stand it? If
so, follow your passion. Make it an important part of your life as often as you
can.
·
If
it’s golf, play it as often as you can. If your passion is working with
children, then pursue it, whether it’s through working at a nursery school,
becoming a school teacher, or serving as the neighborhood babysitter. Make it
happen.
5.
Worry less about
what others think.
Pay more attention to what you think.
If
someone isn’t a relevant player in your personal life, then what they believe
about you is irrelevant. What you believe about yourself is what
matters.
·
Use
your emotional fortitude in ways that make your life better. Ensure that your
opinion of yourself is great!
6.
Instead of
complaining, accept the situation or take action. If what you’re upset
about is out of your control, it might be time to just accept it. However, if
it’s something that’s within your power to change, take action. Complaining
is a waste of your precious time. Focus on problem-solving instead.
7.
Accept
responsibility for your life. If you’re unhappy, there’s no reason to
blame your parents, spouse, or boss. Step up and make some decisions to alter
what troubles you.
·
You
are the captain of your own ship. Figure out the course you want to
take and then stay on it.
8.
Refuse to
criticize.
Focus on assessing your own life instead. Notice the good qualities in others.
Making positive changes in yourself is where your power lies.
9.
“Be the change
you want to see in the world.” Mahatma Gandhi, a great man of peace,
first said this quote. Make a difference in your own life and the
lives of others. You’ll absolutely love yourself for it. Others will
love what you’re doing, too. Volunteer. Join a club. Get involved!
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